In the past week well known children’s author, Mem Fox, has created controversy by stating that future generations would look back on the current trend of putting children into childcare and ask “how could we have allowed that child abuse to happen”?
No parent wants to be accused of abusing a child. And given the relatively high standard of childcare in Australia, abuse may be a long bow to draw.
Yet an ever-increasing flow of research seems to confirm that there are significant negative consequence occurring due to childcare use.
Scientists have found that on average, mums who return to paid employment in the early stages following a child’s birth are more likely to have negative emotions towards their child. In fact, mothers who race back to the workforce have been found to be emotionally unsupportive and even downright upset at their children compared to those who remain at home. The return to work is also associated with more negative behaviour towards her child, and a more irritable child.
Some much replicated research confirms that boys are at heightened risk of failing to develop a secure attachment to their father when their mother returns to work within the child’s first year. This can influence relationship building skills for a lifetime.
In another study 200 children were followed over a nine-year period. Mothers who placed their children in 30 hours of care or more each week within the first year of the child’s life (and continued this until school age) had children who were more non-compliant compared to children receiving fewer childcare hours. These high-care children were also rated as less likeable by peers and had greater social challenges at age 9 compared to children who received less care in the early years.
Finally, another influential researcher studied children aged 5 to 6 years. Those who spent more time in childcare in their first 5 years of life scored worse on peer popularity and teacher-rated peer competence. They also exhibited more behaviour problems, aggression, and were disliked by peers. This particular study is interesting as it appears to disconfirm the common myth that time in childcare is good for children’s socialisation. Sociability appears to be worse for children placed in childcare when compared to children who are looked after by parents or who have minimal exposure to care situations.
So what seems to be an easy solution, utilising childcare, can ultimately present us with a lifetime of challenges and negative outcomes.
Our present dilemma, however, is the economic burden placed upon families with enormous debt levels and mortgages. Kevin Rudd’s “working families”, those he is aiming to “assist” are those with both parents working. “Working families” are the heaviest users of childcare in this country. Yet the very system being offered as a ‘solution’ for working families poses significant long term problems for the wellbeing of our children, the family, and our communities.
Based upon the research described above and hundreds of studies confirming and extending these findings, by endorsing childcare via subsidies the government is promoting adherence to a practice that carries with it risks that are of great concern for children, families, and even greater concern for the future of our communities.
A parent’s most important occupation is within the walls of the home. Parents should be supported by the government, business, and the community generally, in meeting the needs of our most precious resource – our children.